5 Reasons Why To Go For A Long Distance Relationship

We have all been in this situation, you meet someone very special, you fall in love, everything is perfect, then suddenly it turns out that this very special someone had to leave far far away for college, better job, expedition, you name it. You then have two choices: breaking up or to go for a long distance relationship.

Here are the top 5 reasons to consider why to go for a long distance relationship:

1. Better sorry than safe

There is nothing sadder than a missed opportunity.

A very wise man once said to me: “I never regret things I’ve done, but I regret many things I have not done”.

You never know how things are before you try them. Every single experience, good or bad, enriches your life in some way. It builds the basement for decisions in the future. They make you wiser and build up your self-esteem. Let alone that in every missed opportunity you may have missed the love of your life.

All the good things in life involve a certain risk, but the biggest risk in life is missing out.

Think about that.

2. You gain time for other things

“Finally I can take the Spanish course”.

A long distance relationship isn’t as time consuming as a regular relationship. You can use the free time to reach your personal or job related goals. You have more time for your career, friends, hobbies and family.

3. It’s the ultimate test of seriousness

“I really mean it baby”. Now you can prove your commitment.

There is no point enduring a long distance relationship if you don’t mean it, if you are not fully committed. It just doesn’t work. After a few weeks/months first girl/boy that comes around you like you will break out.

So, this is a test whether you are committed and suitable for each other for a long term relationship.

Of course, this only applies to couples who were together before they were separated in a long distance relationship. If you’ve met in a chat room it’s the other way around.

4. You learn to treasure these rare moments together

Fact is, you’ll probably see each other only 1-2 times a month, if at all. These rare meetings will be an explosion of passion and love. All the longing will focus into this short meeting.

It’s a good lesson to realize what really matters in a relationship.

5. You really get to know each other

It is much easier and much more natural to get to know somebody through e-mail. All the outside-stuff is left out. It is easier to open up, you learn the inner world of you partner.

No pretending, no beautifying.

This also makes the meetings more intense.

There you have it, some thoughts why to take a chance and go for it.

Have I?

I got a tag from Rechie again. Thanks Chie!

Have you ever been on TV? NOPE
Have you ever been sung in public? Yes
Have you ever been dyed your hair blond? No
Have you ever been eaten frong's leg? No and Never!
Have you ever been received a present that you really hated? No

Have you ever been walked in lamp post? No
Have you ever been cooked a meal by yourself for more than people? Yes, in my family and friends.

Have you ever been fallen or stumbled infront of others? Yes and it was suck!

Have you ever been volunter a work? Yes and it was great!

I love about Nat??

I got a tag from Rechie again. In where you can be able to express what you been loved about your partner.

Nat, I can call him a perfect one. He is a man that who know's everything, first how to understand your woman in some other way. He is very concern and care me in many ways. And in the first place, he loved me, for what I am and who I am. A woman will seek a man who is willing to do such things and will let her appreciate. His a good person. I loved this man.